Saturday, October 29, 2005

This is the same as my other blogs most recent post, so don't read it if you already read my msn space

Hey diddle diddle


Please see zero2hero (http://jillandrusty.blogspot.com/). They have a revolutionary new concept that all men need to read and/or enrol in the 101 unit. It is highyl beneficial and would stop that poor excuse for a gender from getting such a bad rep.


Now that you've all read that blog, i will ask the question to my few male readers.... Do girls need a 3 C's concept? Are there three things that a girl need s to have in order to be dateable? I mean general concepts as well, not like Blonde, Breasts and Blow job, they don't count as the female version, i won't allow it to count! I mean are there three personlaity traits like Common courtesy that girls need to have, or that need to be said because we don't have them. i mean, guys do have the three C's, but i think its the fact that they have to be pointed out by Rizzle D and J Ho that is the cruicial point here. Are there things that girls do that makes guys frustrated and upset and feel they need to repeatedly tell them over and over that they should be doing others. I don't know if i'm explaining it very well. What i mean is that you will not find a girl that doen's have a "why doesn't he call" story. or a girl that hasn't had a guy cancel for no good reason, or plain just not come. Thats why there is the Common courtesy C. Because it seems to be genetic that guys lack it! Is it really that hard to respond to a text message or stick to plans? Really, is it that hard? Now, apart from that C i feel that the following are somewhat more superfical and less important. I think that the Character C is far more important that the Cash C, but i didn't make the rules, i'm just spreading the Joy.

So is there a thing like the not calling and not being courteous thing that girl have? I can't think of a trait that is that wide spread amoungst the gender... Maybe Gossip, so we should have three G's? or is gossip really not important in the scheme of things, unlike courtesy. I mean, really, so we talk to our friends about everyting, is that really going to harm a relationship in the way the three C's would? Is telling my best friend that my new boyfriend is a biter really the same as him standing me up to hang with his mates, that he lives with and see's everyday? Is telling a close friend how could the guy is in bed really the same as 3 months of the girl having to call the guy, organise the plans, make sure he sticks to the plans, take into consideration what his work schedule is while he sits at home playing the playstation?

I honestly don't think there is a consistent trait that all (or at least most) females have that is as widespread as the guys triats. Feel free to contradict me, feel free to come up with the female equivalent, so we can start a Female three C's 101 unit at Richardson University. I just don't think that you'll be able to come up with three things that all girls need to improve on, or need to have to have a good relationship, we're just not guys.

Over and out
Mel
xoxo

Monday, October 17, 2005

Is this what its going to be like

If having a bf entails me having four hours sleep then i'll pass. Is it bad of me to value sleep over someone? ah, well, thats not true, i would happily do it all again, just not before i catch up on my sleep!

How can one night spent talking to someone you have known for years be one of my best ever? How can it change so suddenly? What made it change? Is it the fact that we were both so acutely aware that we were running out of time, that we had to do something before it was too late, or was it purely the drunken rambling that result when an equally drunk friend tells you that you should make out? If it was just the latter though, i don't think it would have happened that way, or would still be happening this way.

Oh, for those taking notes, we talked about my fear, he now knows that i just can't do it, can't make a move. I thought that was a good thing but what if he reads into it that i don't like him enough to be able to conquer that fear? or is it just my brain working overtime again?

Oooh, i need sleep

mel xoxo

Saturday, October 08, 2005

getting what you wished for

I did it. I got what i wished for. in my last big post on my other blog the first thing on my list of things that i wanted and felt was to have a guy to have a major crush on. And now i have one, and he likes me back... So why do i have all this nervous energy pulsing around in me? Whey has my stomach been tied up in knots for a solid 48hrs? Why am i doing everythng i can to talk myself out of wanting him so badly?

I have bemoaned the fact that i'm single for so long the first chance i have to get a boyfriend and i'm running scared, desperatly trying to come up with something to legitiamtly push him away. Hell, i chose doing homework over going on my first date ever! What the fuck does that say about me? i'm scared, i really am. I have no reason to be and i am. finally a guy, a nice sweet, funny, cute guy like me back and i'm scared. I could have everything and i'm pushing it away as fast as i can...

But then on the other hand we haven't even been on a real date or even kissed yet so should i be getting so dramatic about it? I think i am because for the first time its a guy who isn't afraid of relationships, infact, he prefers them. My bestest and most wise freind keeps telling me to not think about it, just take the ball and run. Go with the flow and any other cliches you can think of to insert here! but really, anyone who knows me knows that i can't stop thinking, that its an impossiblitiy to turn my brain off. I think the better piece of adivce she gave me is to focus on the good things, which means i still get to think but it takes just that little bit of pressure of my churned up stomach and protesting brain

Ok, thats enough for now. I don't even feel i should publish this but i will, help me get over those scary arsed fear.

xoxo
Mel

Monday, October 03, 2005

Please complete this sentance:

This summer i will...

E.g. This summer I will lose 10kg, fit into my bikini, earn money, not ruin another phone