Saturday, October 29, 2005

This is the same as my other blogs most recent post, so don't read it if you already read my msn space

Hey diddle diddle


Please see zero2hero (http://jillandrusty.blogspot.com/). They have a revolutionary new concept that all men need to read and/or enrol in the 101 unit. It is highyl beneficial and would stop that poor excuse for a gender from getting such a bad rep.


Now that you've all read that blog, i will ask the question to my few male readers.... Do girls need a 3 C's concept? Are there three things that a girl need s to have in order to be dateable? I mean general concepts as well, not like Blonde, Breasts and Blow job, they don't count as the female version, i won't allow it to count! I mean are there three personlaity traits like Common courtesy that girls need to have, or that need to be said because we don't have them. i mean, guys do have the three C's, but i think its the fact that they have to be pointed out by Rizzle D and J Ho that is the cruicial point here. Are there things that girls do that makes guys frustrated and upset and feel they need to repeatedly tell them over and over that they should be doing others. I don't know if i'm explaining it very well. What i mean is that you will not find a girl that doen's have a "why doesn't he call" story. or a girl that hasn't had a guy cancel for no good reason, or plain just not come. Thats why there is the Common courtesy C. Because it seems to be genetic that guys lack it! Is it really that hard to respond to a text message or stick to plans? Really, is it that hard? Now, apart from that C i feel that the following are somewhat more superfical and less important. I think that the Character C is far more important that the Cash C, but i didn't make the rules, i'm just spreading the Joy.

So is there a thing like the not calling and not being courteous thing that girl have? I can't think of a trait that is that wide spread amoungst the gender... Maybe Gossip, so we should have three G's? or is gossip really not important in the scheme of things, unlike courtesy. I mean, really, so we talk to our friends about everyting, is that really going to harm a relationship in the way the three C's would? Is telling my best friend that my new boyfriend is a biter really the same as him standing me up to hang with his mates, that he lives with and see's everyday? Is telling a close friend how could the guy is in bed really the same as 3 months of the girl having to call the guy, organise the plans, make sure he sticks to the plans, take into consideration what his work schedule is while he sits at home playing the playstation?

I honestly don't think there is a consistent trait that all (or at least most) females have that is as widespread as the guys triats. Feel free to contradict me, feel free to come up with the female equivalent, so we can start a Female three C's 101 unit at Richardson University. I just don't think that you'll be able to come up with three things that all girls need to improve on, or need to have to have a good relationship, we're just not guys.

Over and out
Mel
xoxo

1 Comments:

At October 29, 2005 5:24 pm, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay so as a girl i obviously have no credibility in deciding what should be in the 3 C's girl equivalent...but i think anti-nagging is probably high on the list...as well as anti-bitchness....and anti-moodyness and umm...well u know all the things that are annoying about girls..there are a hell of alot...girls are infact more annoying that guys i think....Perhaps the common courtisy C is directly correlated with the nagging of a female, how much is too much to expect - it's all about perspective..what one partner is happy with the other may not be - this doesn't necessarily make the unhappy one right...u know?...Just because i LOVE sms, doesnt mean my bf does..infact i was there the other day when he got one, and he HATED it...was an interesting sight to see...he was also explaining to me that it takes me 2 seconds to write one, whereas it takes in like an hour - therefore adding to the hate.....which i can understand...so hmmm...i think i went on a tangent....

Female 3 c's obviously need to be considered over appropriate means such as happymeal or draught.....
perhaps, Compromise, (less) criticism and Confidence(no getting unrealistically clingy, because of personal self esteem issues)...hows that?

 

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